In GD4 it was noted that in most of the stories had parents that where missing, and it makes sense... if you look at ALL the classic Disney movies (and most other childhood stories) they are missing one or both. Common theme and I am not sure why. I guess it could have something to do with finding pity for them in their tragedy or making them a bit more mysterious. Not fully understanding their origins or just a piece of it.
It's not so uncommon in real life either... only one of my past boyfriends still has both of his parents. One of them actually died while I was in the room. However I haven't had any big tragedy in my life other then my mom's mother dieing on Christmas with I was 6, but it has left me with little talent to relate to death. Not to bad I guess.
Today is the anniversary of my best friends father's death, thus the most touchy day of the year. Surprisingly it has gone really well so far, he is in good spirits and doing alright (at least the last I talked to him). I can't help but worry though, he takes it all very seriously (with good reason). Very strange situation, he died when he was 5 so he only has these constructed memories of him... and he has a brother who is 10 years older... and his mom got remarried right after... and he doesn't even really know how it happened. He was only told that it was a "brain complication". Arg.. difficult, I want to ask questions but I know that he doesn't have many answers.
Oh well...